Sunday, February 13, 2011

We Need Each Other

What a week it has been! Tragedy tends to put things in perspective and bring out the best in people.

We need each other! The past several days our house has been full. Most of Chris' family has been at our house so they could be together. While I was not born in that family, I AM a part of them and they me. I benefited tremendously from them being here with me most of the week. We encouraged each other, laughed with each other, cried with each other and even took turns being strong. Not one of us could survive tragedy alone. We surrounded each other with love and support. My wonderful husband played the part of Hazel. (for those too young to remember, Hazel was a maid and cook)He was wonderful, he cooked and cleaned and never complained about dishpan hands.

Saturday we had a drop-in for Chris' friends to come love on her. My daughter was the go-between and another friend Elise organized people bringing food. the best part was having close friends come over and really get to spend time with Chris and her mom. (the rest of the family had left for home)

Sorrow shared is sorrow divided, joy shared is joy multiplied, I know this is true, because I have witnessed it all week. We need each other!

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